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我覺得自己是個滿相信命運的人,不是說都聽天由命,反而是去思考什麼值得把握,什麼需要放棄,什麼應該放手,什麼適合追求。

如果我覺得這是命運的安排,那我會更堅持、更執著地去追求;但如果不是,強求也沒有意義,我不會去和命運對抗,天註定的事情,我選擇微笑地接受。

也許是因為自己這種「順命」的天性,所以很多東西即使無法得到、即使失去,我也很快能夠釋懷;但怕就怕有時候,明知道是不屬於自己的東西,還是汲汲營營地去爭求,而往往得到了以後,我卻開始懷念從未擁有過的輕鬆。

一個人的手裡,可以擁有很多人的夢想,但到最後,不是你的你還是要鬆手。「曾經擁有」,看似美好,但累積了好多好多的「曾經」,也讓回憶變得有點重。

我還是最愛所謂命中注定的天長地久,因為不會錯過,因為不用強求,如果可以,我希望可以永不告別,永不分開,永不在深夜裡因為懊悔而一個人淚流。


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We went to my cousin's engagement party last Saturday. It was hold in the bride's house in Tainan, and it amazed me since her house is so big and all the decoration and furniture are in European style. The ceremony was simple but in a traditional way. After that, we had a fancy lunch together. My cousin is the first person who get married in our family of this generation. After their demonstration, I realize that a wedding is not as easy and fun as I thought...and wait, it was just an engagement ceremony. 

Anyways, congratulation to the new couple!   

 


These are what we had for lunch...ymmm


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